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Put away your pointless taboos and restrictions upon sexual energy\u2014rather, help others to truly understand its wonder, and to channel it properly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In your mythology you have made Eve the \u201cbad\u201d one here\u2014the temptress who ate <\/strong>of the fruit, the knowledge of good and evil\u2014and coyly invited Adam to join her. This <\/strong>mythological set-up has allowed you to make woman man\u2019s \u201cdownfall\u201d ever since, <\/strong>resulting in all manner of warped realities\u2014not to mention distorted sexual views <\/strong>and confusions. (How can you feel so good about something so bad?)<\/strong><\/p>\n

There was nothing bad about it, nothing evil, nothing inherently \u201cwrong.\u201d Yet you have so deeply ingrained within you the teachings of others on this subject that you have rejected your experience in favor of \u201ctruth.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Having adopted this \u201ctruth\u201d as your own, you have formed thoughts around it\u2014<\/strong>thoughts which are creative.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Is sex okay? C\u2019mon\u2014what is the real story behind this human experience? Is sex purely for procreation, as some religions say? Is true holiness and enlightenment achieved through denial\u2014or transmutation\u2014of the sexual energy? Is it okay to have sex without love? Is just the physical sensation of it okay enough as a reason?<\/p>\n

You are wise to be insistent in questioning that. The original wisdom surrounding suffering in silence has become so perverted that now many believe (and several religions actually teach) that suffering is good, and joy is bad. Therefore, you have decided that if someone has cancer, but keeps it to himself, he is a saint, whereas if someone has (to pick a dynamite topic) robust sexuality, and celebrates it openly, she is a sinner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Boy, You did pick a dynamite topic. And You cleverly changed the pronoun, too, from male to female. Was that to make a point?<\/p>\n

It was to show you your prejudices. You don\u2019t like to think of women having robust\u00a0<\/strong>sexuality, much less celebrating it openly. You would rather see a man dying without\u00a0<\/strong>a whimper on the battlefield than a woman making love with a whimper in the street.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t You?<\/p>\n

I have no judgment one way or the other. But you have all sorts of them \u2014and I <\/strong>suggest that it is your judgments which keep you from joy, and your expectations <\/strong>which make you unhappy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All of this put together is what causes you disease, and therein begins your <\/strong>suffering.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How do I know that what You are saying is true? How do I know this is even God speaking, and not my overactive imagination?<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve asked that before. My answer is the same. What difference does it make? <\/strong>Even if everything I\u2019ve said is \u201cwrong,\u201d can you think of a better way to live? <\/strong><\/p>\n

No.<\/p>\n

Then \u201cwrong\u201d is right, and \u201cright\u201d is wrong!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yet I\u2019ll tell you this, to help you out of your dilemma: believe nothing I say. Simply <\/strong>live it. Experience it. Then live whatever other paradigm you want to construct. <\/strong>Afterward, look to your experience to find your truth. <\/strong><\/p>\n

One day, if you have a great deal of courage, you will experience a world where <\/strong>making love is considered better than making war. On that day will you rejoice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, sex is \u201cokay.\u201d Again, if I didn\u2019t want you to play certain games, I wouldn\u2019t <\/strong>have given you the toys. Do you give your children things you don\u2019t want them to\u00a0<\/strong>play with?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Play with sex. Play with it! It\u2019s wonderful fun. Why, it\u2019s just about the most fun you\u00a0<\/strong>can have with your body, if you\u2019re talking of strictly physical experiences alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But for goodness sake, don\u2019t destroy sexual innocence and pleasure and the purity <\/strong>of the fun, the joy, by misusing sex. Don\u2019t use it for power, or hidden purpose; for\u00a0<\/strong>ego gratification or domination; for any purpose other than the purest joy and the <\/strong>highest ecstasy, given and shared\u2014which is love, and love recreated\u2014which is new\u00a0<\/strong>life! Have I not chosen a delicious way to make more of you? <\/strong><\/p>\n

With regard to denial, I have dealt with that before. Nothing holy has ever been <\/strong>achieved through denial. Yet desires change as even larger realities are glimpsed. It\u00a0<\/strong>is not unusual, therefore, for people to simply desire less, or even no, sexual activity<\/strong>\u2014or, for that matter, any of a number of activities of the body. For some, the\u00a0<\/strong>activities of the soul become foremost\u2014and by far the more pleasurable. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Each to his own, without judgment\u2014that is the motto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The end of your question is answered this way: You don\u2019t need to have a reason for\u00a0<\/strong>anything. Just be cause. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Be the cause of your experience. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember, experience produces concept of Self, conception produces creation, <\/strong>creation produces experience. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You want to experience yourself as a person who has sex without love? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Go ahead! You\u2019ll do that until you don\u2019t want to anymore. And the only thing that will<\/strong>\u2014that could ever\u2014cause you to stop this, or any, behavior, is your newly emerging\u00a0<\/strong>thought about Who You Are. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s as simple\u2014and as complex\u2014as that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Why did you make sex so good, so spectacular, so powerful a human experience if all we are to do is stay away from it as much as we can? What gives? For that matter, why are all fun things either \u201cimmoral, illegal, or fattening\u201d?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve answered the end of this question too, with what I\u2019ve just said. All fun things are\u00a0<\/strong>not immoral, illegal, or fattening. Your life is, however, an interesting exercise in\u00a0<\/strong>defining what fun is. <\/strong><\/p>\n

To some, \u201cfun\u201d means sensations of the body. To others, \u201cfun\u201d may be something <\/strong>entirely different. It all depends on who you think you are, and what you are doing\u00a0<\/strong>here. <\/strong><\/p>\n

There is much more to be said about sex than is being said here\u2014but nothing more\u00a0<\/strong>essential than this: sex is joy, and many of you have made sex everything else but.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sex is sacred, too\u2014yes. But joy and sacredness do mix (they are, in fact, the same <\/strong>thing), and many of you think they do not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your attitudes about sex form a microcosm of your attitudes about life. Life should <\/strong>be a joy, a celebration, and it has become an experience of fear, anxiety, \u201cnot <\/strong>enough-ness,\u201d envy, rage, and tragedy. The same can be said about sex. <\/strong>You have repressed sex, even as you have repressed life, rather than fully Self <\/strong>expressing, with abandon and joy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have shamed sex, even as you have shamed life, calling it evil and wicked, <\/strong>rather than the highest gift and the greatest pleasure. Before you protest that you <\/strong>have not shamed life, look at your collective attitudes about it. Four-fifths of the <\/strong>world\u2019s people consider life a trial, a tribulation, a time of testing, a karmic debt that <\/strong>must be paid, a school with harsh lessons that must be learned, and, in general, an <\/strong>experience to be endured while awaiting the real joy, which is after death.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It is a shame that so many of you think this way. Small wonder you have applied <\/strong>shame to the very act which creates life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The energy which underscores sex is the energy which underscores life; which is <\/strong>life! The feeling of attraction and the intense and often urgent desire to move toward <\/strong>each other, to become one, is the essential dynamic of all that lives. I have built it <\/strong>into everything. It is inbred, inherent, inside All That Is. <\/strong><\/p>\n

The moral codes, religious constrictions, social taboos, and emotional conventions <\/strong>you have placed around sex (and, by the way, around love\u2014and all of life) have <\/strong>made it virtually impossible for you to celebrate your being. <\/strong><\/p>\n

From the beginning of time all man has ever wanted is to love and be loved. And <\/strong>from the beginning of time man has done everything in his power to make it <\/strong>impossible to do that. Sex is an extraordinary expression of love\u2014love of another, <\/strong>love of Self, love of life. You ought to therefore love it! (And you do\u2014you just can\u2019t <\/strong>tell anyone you do; you don\u2019t dare show how much you love it, or you\u2019ll be called a <\/strong>pervert. Yet this is the idea that is perverted.)<\/strong><\/p>\n

In our next book<\/a>, we shall look at sex much more closely; explore its dynamics in <\/strong>greater detail, for this is an experience and an issue of sweeping implications on a <\/strong>global scale. <\/strong><\/p>\n

For now\u2014and for you, personally\u2014simply know this: I have given you nothing <\/strong>shameful, least of all your very body, and its functions. There is no need to hide your <\/strong>body or its functions \u2014nor your love of them, and of each other. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Your television programs think nothing of showing naked violence, but shrink from <\/strong>showing naked love. Your whole society reflects that priority. <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Put away your pointless taboos and restrictions upon sexual energy\u2014rather, help others to truly understand its wonder, and to channel it properly. In your mythology you have made Eve the \u201cbad\u201d one here\u2014the temptress who ate of the fruit, the knowledge of good and evil\u2014and coyly invited Adam to join her. This mythological set-up has […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1144,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[559],"tags":[560],"class_list":{"0":"post-1112","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-spiritual-information","8":"tag-spiritual-information"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1112","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1112"}],"version-history":[{"count":23,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1112\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1143,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1112\/revisions\/1143"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1112"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1112"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igosex.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1112"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}